Question 3 stopped me cold today

I almost skipped the reflection questions today and I’m glad I didn’t. Question 3 — “Where could you choose kindness over rightness today?” — it just sat there and refused to move.

There’s a coworker I’ve been quietly winning an argument against for six months. I’ve been right the whole time. And it’s still costing both of us something I don’t want to keep paying.

Anyone else? How are you sitting with this one?

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Elena P.Lvl 14· 1d ago
Yes. Mine is my older sister. I’ve been right and lonely for two years. I think rightness has been my way of staying in control of pain I can’t fix any other way.
- Maya R.Lvl 18· 1d ago
  ‘Right and lonely for two years.’ That sentence is going on my fridge.
Catarina S.Lvl 17· 20h ago
Translated · 🇧🇷 Portuguese
I needed to read this today. With my mother-in-law it’s been the same. I will try this week. Just one conversation where I do not need to win.
Joy A.Lvl 21Facilitator· 12h ago
Reading all of these and praying for each of you tonight. Joseph’s answer was kindness before it was clarity. That’s the order. Kindness first, even when you don’t have the full picture yet.
Priya N.Lvl 15· 23 min ago
Just got back from coffee with said coworker. Didn’t solve anything. We both laughed about something dumb. I think that was the point.